New Dawn New Day-- and yeah Im Feelin Pretty Good

So I GOT A PROMOTION!!!!!

I am now a Marketing Associate on a P & G brand. WOO HOOO

It has taken a little time for me to get acquainted with my new position and Im learning new things every day! Its so exciting and rewarding to know that the work you have done will be seen by TONS of people. I need to work where I can see a result and know that I affected that change.

I am still transitioning to living here in Boston without my ride or dies... MISS YALL!!!!

I miss just seeing my friends whenever, and someone having something going on at their house--- or hitting up a great eatery--or just being and catching up on stuff.

Im working out being happy every day and in the little things. I have started school again, and so on Tuesdays and Wednesdays please just PASS THE REDBULL (sugar free suga!)

I am just trying to find my place in the world while noticing that I am in fact aging...

Question: Ladies-- do you feel pressure to have at least one of the following under your belt or BOTH--- Professional Career--- wherein you are on a solid path of a career of your choosing, not just working a job

Domestic-- being able to lock down that dude, and take those next steps.... or even have a long term relationship?

Iunno-- they SAY that I shouldnt worry about things like that but im 26 and aint getting any younger. I feel as though Im floudering as I have none of those under my belt-- WELL MAYBE THE FIRST NOW....

But to feel a strong connection with a significant other? Nope-- not Bri-- sigh-- moving forward....

I do wonder-- what happens if Im 33 and unmarried. I want babies-- Do I then consider having a family of my own SANS man? Because I could do that-- I dont want to and it certainly is not preferred, but I could-- (Shout out to my mom who RAISED 3 kids-- all of whom are in collegiate education, no drugs, no babies, no nothing but that great straight path of edcuation and family values--no disrespect it was just how i was raised) My mom has infused in me strength and with that strength courage to do what I need to do for my life....

I want a family and to have babies-- I do-- but Im not intimidated to do it on my own if my EVER PRESENT AND ALWAYS DREAMED OF LIFE does not fall into place. -- That possibility of NOT reaching that romantic goal of husband and babies MIGHT NOT HAPPEN (especially at this pace) and thankfully I live in a time, where I can make that choice and decision....

Wow this certainly did take an interesting turn....